Category Archives: commUnity

I am a sexy blogger.

By Thursday | Published: May 3, 2009
Thank you to the lovely Raven Quince for choos­ing me to receive one of her Sexy Blog­ger Awards! And thank you for her kind words! I don’t always find myself sexy, though as time goes by, I’m start­ing to see what every­one else seems to see, and I’m start­ing to love myself a lit­tle bit [...]
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The Bondage Awards

By Thursday | Published: March 31, 2009
The 2nd annual Bondage Awards are here! The Bondage Awards are an annual people’s choice of the best of indus­try in 10 cat­e­gories. Vot­ing starts the first Sun­day in March end­ing in late April when the win­ners of each cat­e­gory are announced. You can vote once a day, every day for your favorite mod­els, writ­ers, [...]
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The Choices We Make…

By Thursday | Published: February 12, 2009
Racism is some­thing that has affected me though­out my life. When I was younger, my fam­ily received a phone call from some­one who hated any­thing “not white” who threat­ened to light crosses in our front yard. Per­haps I’m for­tu­nate because it hasn’t affected me as adversely as it has so many oth­ers. Regard­less, it has [...]
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Be like me! Get Moo Cards!

By Thursday | Published: January 16, 2009
Have you seen my Moo cards? I use them to pro­mote my blog, my pho­tog­ra­phy, and my favorite social net­work­ing site, FetLife! If you’ve ever met me in per­son, you’ve prob­a­bly seen me pass­ing them out at social events, play par­ties, munches and con­fer­ences. They’re super cute, and they’re a great way to get the [...]
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Beat Me in St. Louis!

By Thursday | Published: January 14, 2009
Beat Me is St. Louis VII is here! More fun, More play, More classes. Come see our HUGE Dungeons. Come lounge in our own POOL. Come shop at more ven­dors in the larger kinky shop­ping mall. Come play more with our new ALL day Dungeon. Com­ple­men­tary mid­night buf­fet for those tired play­ers. Larger hotel rooms, bet­ter prices, more space to [...]
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Freedom of choice.

By Thursday | Published: January 10, 2009
I’m not a mother. I don’t actu­ally have any chil­dren of my own, though I did raise my lit­tle sis­ter. But I don’t think that breast­feed­ing is obscene. Recently, Face­book banned images of breast­feed­ing. While I agree that breasts can be sexy, there’s more to breasts than mere sex. And I don’t think moth­ers should [...]
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Resolutions & NYC Sexbloggers Calendar Giveaway!

By Thursday | Published: December 30, 2008
While I don’t usu­ally make New Year’s res­o­lu­tions, I think I will make an excep­tion because I have sev­eral goals for 2009 that I’d love to achieve.  I’ll be post­ing mine after the first of the new year…but, in the meantime: Your New Year’s res­o­lu­tion could win you a signed copy of the New York City [...]
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Lovestruck in your eyes.

By Thursday | Published: November 6, 2008
8074 by Pas­cal RenouxWow! I’ve been reviewed on Jane’s Guide — I’m so glad they liked my blog, and hello to any­one new here who found me through their link.So…what did they have to say about yours truly? “This blog is writ­ten by a switchy mar­ried woman who is actively and cre­atively explor­ing her sex­u­al­ity. These explo­rations [...]
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Life. Love. Cancer: Part 1

By Thursday | Published: October 19, 2008
Editor’s Note: This is part of a ten-part series writ­ten by The But­ter­fly Temptress. For infor­ma­tion on how you can help, please read this post or go directly to the http://thebutterflytemptress.com. Before I was what I am now, I used to play the ‘What If…?’ game. As a nurse it was a favorite game to [...]
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The power of CommUNITY — The Butterfly Temptress

By Thursday | Published: October 18, 2008
Cross­posted from BestSexBloggers.com Let me get right to the point: Our very own Best Sex Blog­ger, the But­ter­fly Temptress, is fight­ing for her life. I mean that lit­er­ally. She is fight­ing to watch her chil­dren grow up and to grow old with her Knight. I’m not just worked up and impas­sioned just because [...]
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