Category Archives: absence

Placebo Effect or The Real Thing?

By Thursday | Published: December 27, 2009
After months of low libido and non-existent sex drive, I was finally able to switch birth control medications. My doctor advised me to stay on schedule as much as possible, so rather than beginning a new pack in the middle of the month, I waited until the time I would have begun a new pack anyway. That was two weeks ago today and placebo effect or not, I cannot believe the difference!
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Rainbow Crappingly Happy

By Thursday | Published: November 25, 2009
thursdays_child OHMYGOD MY SITE IS BACK UP, I AM SO HAPPY THAT I COULD CRAP A FUCKING RAINBOW. THAT IS ALL. 9 min­utes ago from Echo­fon Okay, that’s prob­a­bly not true. I have prob­a­bly been hap­pier. But I’m pretty sure I’ve never been as rainbow-crapping happy as I am right now. Thank you [...]
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Good to be back.

By Thursday | Published: November 7, 2009
Imag­ine my sur­prise when I found out that my site would be down, not for one, not for two, but for sev­eral days! It was a vaguely panic induc­ing feel­ing — I guess I hadn’t real­ized what an impor­tant part of me this site has become. I feel incom­plete with­out it! So, I’m very glad to be [...]
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The Sexless Sex Blogger

By Thursday | Published: October 12, 2009
I have a con­fes­sion to make. I haven’t had sex in almost a month. It’s been over three weeks since I had an orgasm, three weeks since I thought about test­ing out sex toys, three weeks since I thought about my hus­band, or any­one else in a sex­ual way. It’s an extremely frus­trat­ing feel­ing, this whole not-really-feeling-much-of-anything [...]
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Hectic Life — The Seven Day Masturbation Challenge

By Thursday | Published: August 4, 2009
I miss being unem­ployed. Well, wait, let me rephrase that. I don’t miss send­ing one resume after another and fill­ing out hun­dreds of appli­ca­tions in hopes of a sin­gle call back. I don’t miss try­ing to live on D’s mea­ger pub­lic defender income — though I will be glad when I’ve got a cou­ple of [...]
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Working Girl

By Thursday | Published: July 17, 2009
Wow, this last week has cer­tainly been some­thing else. There’s noth­ing quite like going from being a lady of leisure who can sleep in until noon, laze around the house, and spend time relax­ing to being some­one who works 40+ hours in a demand­ing office! It’s been a bit of cul­ture shock, really. I hadn’t [...]
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Summertime…

By Thursday | Published: June 30, 2009
I’ve been a bit scarce of late, and for that, I apol­o­gize. Things have been rather busy around here — in the past few weeks, I actu­ally got a call­back from one of the many resumes I send out every week, and had not one, but two inter­views, both with pos­i­tive out­looks for the same [...]
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Don’t call it a comeback!

By Thursday | Published: May 18, 2009
Wow, I’m finally back! I know I’ve only been gone for just over a week, but it feels like it’s been for­ever since I was able to sit down in front of my lap­top and type some­thing up for my blog. Thank you to the won­der­ful Dragon Mage for post­ing for me to let my [...]
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Dry Spell

By Thursday | Published: May 6, 2009
I’ve got noth­ing for you. Nada. It’s been a weird past few weeks for me. I’m not sure what’s going on with me, but in the past three weeks, I’ve had sex once. That’s just not like me, at all. I’m just not feel­ing it, no urges, no throb­bing desires, noth­ing. It’s just…weird. And oth­er­wise I’m exactly [...]
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The Heart is Empty

By Thursday | Published: April 13, 2009
I’m blocked today — my writ­ing juices refuse to flow freely. My ideas are stilted, my imag­i­na­tion refuses to soar. But I feel like I should post something,even if that some­thing is just a post explain­ing why I can’t write today. I put my cat, Smokey, to sleep on Fri­day. It’s one of the hard­est deci­sions I’ve [...]
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