It’s Going National!

You’ve just flipped the Jan­u­ary  page on your 2010 Sex Blog­ger Cal­en­dar, whis­pered a fond farewell to the lovely Mia Mar­tina, and greeted the awe­some Abi­ola Abrams, who graces February’s page, and here I am about to talk to you about 2011.  If it seems early to you, you’re not alone; it seems early to me too.  But 2011 is going to be a big­ger and bet­ter year, hope­fully for all of us, and cer­tainly for this amaz­ing project that started as a whim, a fun project with friends that would ben­e­fit our sex pos­i­tive community, one balmy sum­mer night.

Many of you, after see­ing our fab­u­lous cal­en­dar or com­ing to our kick-ass launch party, expressed an inter­est in being a model.  We heard you and we want to give you the oppor­tu­nity to be even more involved.  So for 2011, we’re going NATIONAL!  Yes, you heard it right, the NYC SexBlog­ger Cal­en­dar wants to be even more inclu­sive in 2011.  We want any sex pos­i­tive blogger/internet per­son­al­ity - male, female, gay, straight, queer, trans, any race, any ori­en­ta­tion, any size - who writes/podcasts/video blogs about sex or sex­u­al­ity to feel free to sub­mit a photo.  While our 2010 mod­els are free to sub­mit a photo, we’d like noth­ing bet­ter than to get thir­teen brand new faces and their accom­pa­ny­ing hot bods. I’ll get into those details in a moment, but that’s not the only change we’ve made.

For the last two years, the cal­en­dar pro­ceeds have gone to Sex Work Aware­ness and allowed them to fund Speak Up!, a one day sem­i­nar in 2009 that expanded to a week­end in 2010.  We are so proud to have pro­vided the fund­ing for those events.  Megan Andel­loux, in her fight with the town of Paw­tucket, RI to open her adult sex edu­ca­tion facil­ity, The Cen­ter for Sex­ual Plea­sure and Health, used the train­ing she received last year which helped her win bat­tle and CSPH is now open for busi­ness. This year, we’re thrilled to announce that the funds raised by the cal­en­dar will go to Wood­hull Free­dom Foun­da­tion. Wood­hull Free­dom Foun­da­tion Affirms Sex­u­al­Free­dom as a Fun­da­men­tal Human Right!

We’ve known of and been sup­port­ive of WFF but when we met and talked with the board mem­bers and advi­sory com­mit­tee of WFF at their fundraiser, a diverse group includ­ing the fab­u­lous Carol Queen, we were really impressed with them, their pro­fes­sion­al­ism and their goals.  WFF has a broader focus than SWA and we want our lit­tle cal­en­dar to ben­e­fit all kinds of sex­ual free­dom.  In chang­ing core atti­tudes, defin­ing sex­ual free­dom as a basic human right, sex work­ers too will reap benefits.

Now, how do you sub­mit a photo and what is expected if we pick you to be in the 2011 calendar?

First, you email us one or more pro­fes­sional qual­ity photo that rep­re­sents what sex­ual free­dom means to you or how you express your sex­ual free­dom.  The photo is to be 12 x 12 (this is SQUARE, peo­ple, be sure to let the pho­tog­ra­pher know this in advance of shoot­ing, most pho­tos are rec­tan­gu­lar, so the pho­tog­ra­pher has to look with a dif­fer­ent eye in order to shoot for square art­work).   The for­mat will be CMYK, 12 x 12 full bleed, 300 DPIx 12 full bleed image. If you’d like to dis­cuss con­cepts before work­ing with a pho­tog­ra­pher, please email me at Tess@tiedupevents.com

Along with your photo, please send a short bio and a short (or long, if you’re feel­ing par­tic­u­larly ver­bose on the topic) post talk­ing about how your photo rep­re­sents your sex­ual free­dom.  We would like all entrants to be able to attend our launch party on Novem­ber 5, 201o in NYC, this is one rea­son we’re giv­ing you all so much notice, so that plans can be hatched and funds reserved.  You’ll be required to post a but­ton on your site that links to the cal­en­dar blog and once cho­sen, we’ll pro­vide a spe­cial but­ton for models.

Because we want to also sup­port our econ­omy as well as our fun­da­men­tal right to sex­ual free­dom, despite our dif­fi­cul­ties last year, we are com­mit­ted to print­ing the cal­en­dar in the US of A, we’re not sure how much nudity we can get away with.  If you feel like bar­ing it all, we’re right there with you but we also need to be real­is­tic about what we can get printed, so please give us some softer options.  Last year, the mere sight of nip­ples in two pho­tos caused a printer, even in this econ­omy, to turn down the job.

Please include in your email any sug­ges­tions you have for pro­mot­ing the cal­en­dar and WFF on your site –con­tests, etc. Work­ing with us in pro­mot­ing the cal­en­dar is an impor­tant com­po­nent of being a part of this project.

Sub­mis­sions must be received by May 1, 2010.

More details will fol­low and we’ll post the Photo Sub­mis­sion Guide­lines on a sep­a­rate page so you can review them easily.

In the mean­time, if you’d be so kind as to repost this far and wide, from sea to shin­ing sea, we’d be most appre­cia­tive.  Let’s get every­one who believes that sex­ual free­dom is a fun­da­men­tal human right talk­ing and par­tic­i­pat­ing in this project and shar­ing in the fun with us.

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Factory Doll

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It’s not actu­ally a fac­tory at all, but one of those Japan­ese clubs that you hear about — the kind that caters to any whim. You’ve prob­a­bly heard of them — they spe­cial­ize in cre­at­ing one of a kind “dolls” for their clien­tele. They like to say that you haven’t seen any­thing until you’ve tried out a Fac­tory Doll…

Every night starts out the same. You show up for your shift, walk through a non­de­script door, strip naked, hand your clothes to the atten­dant and pick up the orders for the evening. This is the fun part. You could be up for any­thing. Use your imag­i­na­tion. Can you dream it? Then we can make it hap­pen. I’ve been a mer­maid in a bath­tub full of green jello being fed sar­dines by Aus­tralian busi­ness­men, the cen­ter­piece of a lav­ish feast basted with but­ter and stuffed with veg­eta­bles to be “roasted” and enjoyed,  one-half of Siamese twins con­nected at the cunt.

Tonight starts out like any other. I strip out of my mod­est black suit, step out of my cor­po­rate heels, leave my nine-to-five desk job behind to be some­thing else entirely for an evening. Some­times the clients are reg­u­lars, want­ing some­thing sim­i­lar, the same girls, the same sce­nar­ios. Some­times you get some­one from out of town who’s heard of the club and wants to indulge in some­thing they can’t find any­where else.

Tonight, I start in hair and makeup. I won’t be wear­ing much in the way of clothes. This order requests a Fac­tory Doll in a fast-food shibari set up. We get a lot of men who don’t have the patience or the time to go through the elab­o­rate process of ele­gant rope­work. They pre­fer to call in their order and have it pre­made to their spec­i­fi­ca­tions — some­times we go to their place, the girls call it take-out. The makeup artists take their time. Per­fect lips, per­fect eyes. The clients like to see the per­fec­tion messed up, to see those elab­o­rate designs dis­solve and smear as the tears rise. One girl’s hair, already long, they braid it into a lengthy coil, fas­ten­ing a hook to the end. I’m oiled all over, buffed until my skin shines. Col­lar around my neck, rouge on my nip­ples and cheeks. Then I’m taken into the room. Time to set the scene.

The rig­gers and I are old friends. Not that it makes any dif­fer­ence once the ropes start tight­en­ing around my body. I know he can smell my ris­ing musk as the rope arouses me. Tonight she’s bent over a table breasts crushed against the flat unfor­giv­ing sur­face, arms bound behind her, her legs tied to the legs of the table. More ropes wind around her torso, around her thighs, down the lengths of her calves, bind­ing her firmly. More rope than he could pos­si­ble need just to keep her in place — this is all about arti­fice, about set­ting the stage for the play to begin. Hook in her hair pulled back until her head is pulled up, lip­sticked mouth a per­fect O, he sets the cold steel hook in her ass, slid­ing the metal in slowly but surely. Ropes around my waist, around my thighs, bend­ing me across the table in the oppo­site direc­tion, face up. He sets about secur­ing the shiny steel phal­lus in place with the rope har­ness, around my waist, between my legs, snaking around the swollen lips of my pussy, leav­ing me aroused and exposed, a per­fect meld of fuck and desire. My head bent back, over the edge of the table, my mouth and next to it, her ass and exposed cunt. He ties me in place, then the cock gag goes on, fill­ing my mouth, push­ing me open, until I’m stuffed with cock half way down my throat while a match­ing length rises above my lips, ready to be used.

Eyes closed until I hear voice, then I always peek — I like to see who the clients are. Male, female, accents of every imag­in­able fla­vor. Skin that tastes of exotic lands, come that tastes of spices. This is where we go off script. No mat­ter what they artic­u­late, you can’t pre­dict every­thing. Tonight calls for an orgy, but for whom and what remains to be writ­ten. Girl­ish gig­gles, not mine or hers. Dark eyed beau­ties enter the room, shyly at first, then more excited as they take in the scene set before them. Del­i­cate fin­gers float across my body, test­ing and try­ing before the lusts that drove them here take over, and wide doe eyes lose their inno­cence. Jin­gle of a har­ness as some­one straps some­thing on. Long nails skin across my nip­ples, pinch­ing, scratch­ing. I can hear my com­pan­ion cry out in pain or plea­sure, I can­not tell. Gut­teral grunt and then moan­ing as I watch a nude Nordic god­dess stuff her fist inside a tight lit­tle hole.  Thighs against my face blind me from the sights, as I am mounted and fucked, the rhyth­mic slap of someone’s ass against my face as they ride me, sweet coun­ter­part to some­one else’s hot wet­ness astride my thighs.

Fuck doll? Slut doll? I can be any­thing they want, every­thing they desire, at Fac­tory Doll.

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The Perfect Valentine’s Day Shoe

While I do tend to grav­i­tate towards black shoes, I must admit that Valentine’s Day is the per­fect excuse to indulge my love of all things pink, red and delight­fully heart-shaped. I’ve been on the look­out in my quest for the per­fect Valentine’s Day heel, and I think I’ve found some beauties!

These sexy lit­tle strappy plat­form san­dals in red python from Chi­nese Laun­dry are at the top of my list this year! I love the burst of color against the beau­ti­ful tex­ture and could totally envi­sion these at the office with tights and maybe a tight red cardi­gan to pull the entire out­fit together. If the red is a lit­tle to bright for your taste, these also come in black and beige.

Kate Spade "Genny"For the more tra­di­tional girl, you can’t go wrong with a del­i­cate suede heart bal­anced upon rows of dec­o­ra­tive stitch­ing and a beau­ti­fully lady­like plat­form peep-toe. That sub­tle peek a boo of per­fectly pedi­cured toes will have you beloved drop­ping to their knees to wor­ship at your feet!

For a walk on the wild side, try these Alexan­der McQueen heart-shaped peep toe pumps on for size. I love the out­ra­geously yel­low sole and heel accents — there’s some­thing very rock n’ roll, very tight leather jeans and low cut tops about these shoes. But if you don’t want to break your bud­get, Frederick’s car­ries an equally adorable and much more afford­able ver­sion in black, pink, and red.

Vivienne Westwood AnglomaniaAnd for the fab­u­lous fash­ion­ista who loves to play around with fash­ion and just have fun — these Vivi­enne West­wood Anglo­ma­nia + Melissa Lady Dragon sling­backs are the grownup equiv­a­lent of wear­ing your heart on your sleeve.

What will you be wear­ing on Valentine’s Day? Me — I hope to be wear­ing a fab­u­lous pair of heels…and lit­tle else!

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Fancypants HNT

It’s been awhile, but you know I love my pretty tights and stockings.

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I love being all busi­ness on top, but then, when I get up from behind my desk, you’re in for a surprise.

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That glimpse of skin through del­i­cately pat­terned tights — I think it’s far sex­ier than bare legs.

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Paired with my favorite heels, I’m ladylike…enough for the office, at least.

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And then there’s the fun of tak­ing them off, but that’s another post altogether!

Happy HNT! And don’t for­get to  stop by Os’s and check out the other HNT

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Fodder for Fantasy

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This photo com­pletely taps into a fan­tasy that Nar­ra­tionbyD implanted in my mind with the help of this video. The idea of being with another round-bottomed beauty, her curves against mine while she fucks me like that and then I return the favor. I won­der if bad­bad­girl might be inter­ested in act­ing out that deli­cious lit­tle sce­nario? I won­der if that would inter­est her new Mas­ter, and I do owe her a hot video or two. Or maybe the kinky librar­ian might be inter­ested ? I’m fairly cer­tain that could be some­thing her Mas­ter­Doc might be into. And I think the con­trast between our skin tones would look amaz­ing in pic­tures. Mmmm.

And add a rock hard cock (or two) for us to share, one after the other. I love the idea of just being one hole that he can choose from a selec­tion of wet will­ing holes. Wow, I’m sop­ping, drip­ping, soak­ing thru my panties wet just con­tem­plat­ing the scenario.

As you can see from my mus­ings above, I’m think­ing of enlist­ing some help to ful­fill this sce­nario the next time we play with some­one else. I think I could even be per­suaded to travel — I have been want­ing to get out and meet some of my fel­low bloggers.

So, any­one inter­ested in help­ing out?

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Taboo

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I’m a lit­tle ashamed to be writ­ing this. This is based on a series of incred­i­bly hot dreams I’ve had about some­one in my real life, my brother-in-law. We’re not related by blood, but through mar­riage, and the funny thing is, I’m not at all attracted to him in real life. But every now and then, he haunts my dreams…

I can’t say it all started out inno­cently enough, because, well, it didn’t. Things were pretty wrong from the get go, from the first smol­der­ing looks across the room at the kids’ birth­day party to the first covert hand­job under the fam­ily din­ner table. The next thing I knew, we were meet­ing in the hall­way at fam­ily gath­er­ings, sneak­ing a quick kiss here and a quick feel there. We were extremely care­ful at first, mak­ing sure no one was around, mak­ing sure the door was locked, mak­ing sure nobody even suspected.

It wasn’t quite incest, though there was some­thing very inces­tu­ous and taboo about the entire thing. He was mar­ried to my husband’s sis­ter, so we weren’t related by blood, but their’s was an extremely tight knit fam­ily with plenty of fam­ily vaca­tions, lots of fam­ily din­ners — I can’t think of a week that went by with­out the entire fam­ily get­ting together at least once.

As things heated up between us, tak­ing addi­tional risks made things even hot­ter. We would sit next to each other at the weekly Sun­day din­ner, where, sur­rounded by every­one, his fin­gers worked their way under the hem of my skirt and up my thigh. Try­ing to ignore the heated flush of my cheeks while his fin­gers worked their way inside me, find­ing me wet and will­ing, all the while try­ing to pass the peas and keep up with the steady chat­ter. He loves to pinch my engorged clit, caus­ing me to lose my train of though mid sen­tence, leav­ing me blush­ing and stut­ter­ing while every­one laughs about how scat­ter­brained I can be.

We’ll stop by their house to pick up a pan or a dish, and while they chat in the kitchen, he’ll have me pinned against the door of the util­ity room, my fin­gers quickly find­ing the throb of his cock behind his zip­per while he pushes my skirt out of the way, rip­ping my stock­ings in his haste. I barely have time to stroke him once or twice before he is inside me, my legs wrapped around his waist while he thrusts into me, sti­fling his moans against my neck while I bite my bot­tom lip to keep from gasp­ing aloud. All the while, we can hear them chat­ting in the other room through the thin veneer of the door.

We never meet out­side of fam­ily things. We never meet each other for lunch or a work day quickie. But when they come over to bor­row a video, I know we’ll find each other in a dark­ened hall­way, and I’ll be on my knees with his cock down my throat, his hand in my hair, his eyes, usu­ally so calm and laid back, glit­ter­ing in the dim light as he fucks my face to his satisfaction.

Fam­ily vaca­tions are always the best. We do a few days at Dis­ney World for the kids, tol­er­at­ing the long lines for a few moments with Mickey. I love the feel of his hand on the curve of my ass under the hem of the short skirt I wear while we stand in line under the hot sun, the way he brushes against me when no one’s look­ing, press­ing the full­ness of my breasts between us. I ended up fak­ing a headache to go back to the hotel room where he later met me under the guise of hav­ing for­got­ten the spare bat­tery to the cam­corder — we never made it to the bed.

Later, we spent a week at the beach for the adults at a lovely lit­tle place only a stone’s throw away from the water’s edge. While the kids pad­dled in the waves, I returned to the house to use the out­door shower to get all of the itchy sand off my skin.

Behind the nar­row pri­vacy enclo­sure, I stripped off my suit, throw­ing it over the wooden divider, and turned the water on full blast. Lus­cious tor­rents of hot water beat down on my sun scorched skin, then he was behind me, his hands reach­ing around to cup my breasts pos­ses­sively, his mouth tast­ing the salt on my neck, his erec­tion already hard and evi­dent, mak­ing itself wel­come between the cheeks of my ass. It’s the kiss­ing that does me in. We make out like teenagers on a first date, grop­ing and suck­ing, lick­ing and bit­ing. He opens his mouth to me, demand­ing my tongue, slides his into mine so I can suck it. Fin­gers on my nip­ples, pulling and stretch­ing them to taut points. My hands below his waist, fin­gers stroking rhyth­mi­cally as his cock grows at my touch, swelling, throb­bing, until I can’t pos­si­bly fit him in both hands.

His hands under the cheeks of my ass, lift­ing me up and onto his cock, then my back against the rough wooden slats and he’s mov­ing inside me, stok­ing my fire, fuck­ing me, tak­ing me until I’m scream­ing, mouth sealed against his skin to muf­fle the sound. Pulling out almost all the way to sink back inside me and I’m com­ing, my gush­ing wet­ness as hot as the water pour­ing down over our bod­ies. He sinks his teeth into my shoul­der, dri­ving into me, bruis­ing me, doing me, our bod­ies slap­ping beneath the water, the shower hope­fully loud enough to mask our sounds.

Over his shoul­der, I can see my mother-in-law detach her­self from the crowd and begin wan­der­ing towards the house. My hot breath against the seashell of his ear, I tell him “someone’s com­ing”. Eyes, wild and a lit­tle unhinged burn into mine and he’s devour­ing me, feed­ing off of me, eat­ing me alive with his mouth and his cock, and I know he’s going to come any sec­ond, and the plea­sure builds and I’m almost there again. Then he’s pulling out of me roughly, stamp­ing a hard kiss across my mouth, and he’s gone, leav­ing me shud­der­ing under the cool­ing stream of water while my mother-in-law stands on the other side of the enclo­sure ask­ing if I’m okay.

Mmmm, he always leaves me breath­lessly wait­ing for the next time dream.

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e[lust] #6

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HNT Cour­tesy of Hav­ing My Cake And Eat­ing It Too

Wel­come to e[lust] - your source for sex­ual intel­li­gence and inspi­ra­tions of lust from the smartest & sex­i­est blog­gers! Whether you’re look­ing for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opin­ions or expert infor­ma­tion, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #7? Start with the rules, check out the sched­ule in the site’s side­bar and sub­scribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Expos­ing My Self to Air­port Secu­rity - I stared right at her until she looked away and called for assis­tance for a pat-down search.  I gaped, chin dropped: holy shit, they’re gonna give me a pat down cuz I’m pack­ing a sil­i­con cock.

Prefect’s Pre­rog­a­tive - When I neglect this duty, or don’t per­form it to his sat­is­fac­tion, he makes me light a fire in his room, and stand in front of it in just my school shirt and white socks.

Atten­tion Women: There is Some­thing Wrong With Your Vagina - Yes, that’s what your vagina needs: a breath mint. Because, just like vagina shouldn’t smell like vagina, it also shouldn’t taste like vagina.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

The Per­fect Fat Why do clothes design­ers assume that if you’re plus-sized you’re 1. over 5′9″ and 2. over the age of 45 or “matronly and mod­est”? At the age of 32 I am not yet ready to dress like my grand­mother.

~ Fea­tured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Zip­less - “I have some Scotch in my room—maybe you’d join me? You know, in the inter­est of not drink­ing alone…” She smiled. Per­haps she could yet sal­vage the day’s ending.

See also: Plea­surists #61 for all your sex toy review needs.
Also in recent sex news
, check out the cov­er­age of the Adult Enter­tain­ment Expo that hap­pened in Las Vegas a cou­ple weeks ago. You’ll see videos and arti­cles from our fel­low sex-bloggers on fun things like a rodeo penis and new sex toys not even on the mar­ket yet!

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It’s Coming…Are You Ready?

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Pleasurists #61

by Gene Magic

Plea­surists is a round-up of the adult prod­uct and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and infor­ma­tion fol­low our RSS Feed and Twit­ter.

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Editor’s Pick

  • Basic Essen­tials Sof­tee by Undressed Reviews
  • Mar­ket­ing Guy 1:

    What do chicks love?

    Mar­ket­ing Guy 2:

    My Dick!

    MG 1 & 2:

    WOOOOOAAAAAAHHHHH!

    MG 1:

    No seri­ously, though…they love pink…and….and….

    MG 2:

    My Dick!

    Note: Seri­ously hilar­i­ous. If you like your reviews with a side of com­edy and snark like I do this one is fan­tas­tic and may occa­sion­ally have you won­der­ing wtf.

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On to the reviews…

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Lube, Mas­sage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

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Spoiled.

Guess what I get­ting? Eleven inches of cold hard steel just wait­ing to be put to the test against soft, warm, yield­ing flesh…

The holy grail of sex toys…

Mine. All Mine. But you could have one too.

A lit­tle birdy told me that if you, like me, have a 2010 NYC Sex Blog­gers Cal­en­dar, you can get 25% off the njoy Eleven this Mon­day only (psst, look at the entry for Jan­u­ary 18th)…

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